No Tongue Lashing Necessary

I know we haven't updated in almost 2 months, but that doesn't mean that there hasn't been a lot going on. As the day progresses, I will organize my thoughts and pictures and add a few new posts. Gotta have everything documented for that good 'ol blog book that someday I'll get around to ordering!!

Catch up real soon!

Time to Change

I know, I know, I'm jumping ahead of Thanksgiving, but there's something about being in a family that has been talking about Christmas, planning for Christmas, shopping for Christmas, playing Christmas music for a month now that puts you in the holiday spirit. Like the song says, it truly is the greatest time of year, and I think Thanksgiving and Christmas are just extensions of each other. And as Trevor likes to point out, we could play Christmas music all year long as it celebrates Jesus and the gift of Himself in our lives each and every day.

Here is a picture that Grayson painted weeks ago. It is hanging proudly on his bedroom door in hopes of good things to come. I did have to help the underlying sketches, but he did a great job painting!!

Fall Fun

We love this time of year so much...the changing colors, long-sleeve t-shirts and jeans, Fall decor, Fall-scented candles, extra time with family and friends, and knowing that Christmas is right around the corner. Here are just a few stories and snapshots of our Fall festivities as we celebrated Hallelujah Harvest / Halloween.

Hunt Club is always a family favorite. We spend way too much money taking a hayride, choosing our family pumpkins, and doing a few of the carnival rides, but it always a huge hit for us. Some year Trevor and I will actually get back there to enjoy the nightime scare-fest, but again this year passed by and we didn't make it!!

Halleleujah Harvest was interesting this year as Trevor did a trunk with his 8th grade boys, and with me "working" we tried to juggle Grayson. He came home with tons of candy and rode a horse so that made the evening a success. He hung out with me as I helped out with set-up. He helped me pull wagon-fulls of candy from the Life Center out to the trunk-or-treating lines. He pulled as much as me and was an awesome servant that day. I only wish I had taken a picture of him pulling a wagon! He had all of his weight trying to pull that heavy wagon, and of course he wanted NO HELP!!

Halloween was so much fun. Grayson and I always have a blast carving our pumpkins. This year we did 3: 2 regular faces and one Grayson/Mommy creation. If you can tell, the one large pumpkin has Mickey ears for the eyes and the nose is the sail of a boat linked to the boat that was the mouth. I wonder where he came up with that idea???!!! We proudly put them on our front porch along with our candy buckets. I got my idea from Sue as last year we toured their neighborhood with them and all of the families had their buckets sitting on their front porches for the children to just take some candy on their own because everyone was out with their kids. I was even surprised to see that we had a little left-over when we got back home!! We had a great time just doing our own neighborhood this year. Grayson's bucket was so full I had to take some out and put it in my pockets so he would have enought space for the last few homes!! The funniest part about all that candy is that it is still sitting here at the house. He likes the thrill of the "hunt" and really could care less about the actual goodies. So needless to say, I am donating a lot of it to my candy bucket at church!

This is close as Grayson will get to sticking his hands in to clean out the pumpkin!!

This house in our neighborhood is always decked out for all the holidays so we amde sure to stop and trick-or-treat there! It was a Fall/Halloween wonderland inside!!

The return from "Magical Land"

No, I haven't been working myself to death so much so that I haven't had time to blog. Actually the opposite. I told Trevor 2 weeks ago that I needed a vacation. Being a working woman was taking it's toll, and now that the Fall semester had gotten kicked off, I was ready for one relaxing week. We've been dying to return to Disney, and do it our way this time...less crowds, cooler weather, maximized family time!! We literally planned a last minute trip, told next to no one and off we went.

We didn't even tell Grayson!! As we woke him up last Tuesday, he did have to trip over the suitcases, so I'm sure that was his first clue, but we acted as if nothing was different and we were taking him to school for the day. As we drove over to the Norfolk Airport, he asked why we weren't going to school. We told him we were going on a trip. He asked if Mrs. Williams, his teacher, would miss him today, adn we assured him that we had already talked to her and that she knew he would be gone.

As we proceeded to get our bags checked and board the aircraft, he still had no idea where we were going. Several people had remarked that we were going to Orlando, but that means nothing to Grayson. We knew we had better tell him so that we were the ones to catch the excitement and not someone else. We had him guess, and he never got it, which I was kind of surprised. Here is the picture I took as we told him on the plane...

More stories and pictures to come. The highlight of the trip was meeting Cinderella face to face in her castle at the Magic Kingdom. It was a surprise for me too! It is so funny that my last blog was about just that. Who knew I would get to write a follow-up to the story?! I have read all your blogs to catch up on what happened while we were gone, but no comments were left. Keep writing about all your moments..I'm reading them in my "spare" time!!

Fireman Prince Grayson

Oh sweet Grayson, my little four-year old who is in love with Cinderella and being a fireman...

You have such a keen interest in being a fireman. It is the one thing that has remained for a couple years now. You love to dress up, get your siren blaring, and ride the Little People Fire Truck all around the house. You are way too big at this point for that truck, but you are loving it more now than you did when you were 2!! I love how you want to help people, and I swear that fire engine siren follows you to school each day as I'm convinced that I hear it in my Office as I'm working!! Maybe someday you'll actually grow up to love the fire service as your Daddy and his Grandpa H. did. Regardless, being a fireman has been good for you because apparently firemen can do anything!! Now that we must call you "Fireman Grayson" all the time, you have this courage that you muster up because firemen aren't afraid of anything. For example, we were riding in the car the other day and you said that we could take our car through the car wash, the one with the big brushes that pound that car, the one that has terrified you since you were small. You said that you could do it now "because I'm a fireman and firemen aren't afraid of anything"! Well, firemen do get scared sometimes Grayson, but with God on your side, you can do anything without having to be afraid.

As for Cinderella, the other woman in your life right now...I am not sure why she has captured your heart as she has. The Cinderella song by Steven Curtis Chapman came out at the same time as you grew to love her in the movies. Short of buying a Cinderella Barbie doll at the Disney store, which mommy refused to succumb to, you are in love and pretend with her all the time. For a while, Cinderella came with us on every outing and grocery trip. She would ride in the backseat with you and you would help her out of the car when we arrived at the store or wherever it was we were going. Now she only comes out at certain times and even I have been given the privelege to BE Cinderella. What are you going to do when you get to meet her face to face at Disney World!! Oh it's going to be a priceless moment!!!!!

The other day, we were playing together and you said that you were the Prince and I was Cinderella. You proceeded to take my hand and ask me to dance. You bowed, and I followed suit with a curtsy. We danced around the living room, you the Prince and me Cinderella. Every now and again you would lift onto your tiptoes and raise my arm and then proceed to tell me that it was time to twirl. I would crouch as low as I could to twirl but still hold onto your hand. As we contiued to dance together, you told me that with my free hand I needed to be holding out my dress so that it wouldn't get stepped on!! You were a very charming dancer.

Prince Fireman Grayson, I will dance with you anytime because as I like to tease you (and you can't understand!), all too soon the clock will strike midnight, and you'll be gone too. Except there will be some other sweet Cinderella girl holding your hand, holding your heart, and holding her dress so it won't get stepped on. Oh dear God, protect my little Prince's heart. Allow him to continue to grow in You and be nurtured in such a way that he keeps this innocence, this sweet gentle spirit. Help me as his mom, the first Cinderella in his life, to foster that in him, to nurture those qualities that a girlfriend and wife will someday admire and cherish. Sweet dreams my Prince Grayson!!

Amateur Photographer

Grayson actually has a pretty good eye for taking pictures. Here are some of his recents shots.

Another "First" (sort of!)

Today was the big day for Grayson and Mommy! I know it's not real school, as in Kindergarten, but it was Grayson's first day away from mommy and home routines. Grayson is going to Pre-K 4 this year and he was so excited this morning. I awoke early, when the clock still had a 6 on it, and got ready first so that we wouldn't be late. I had a few practice runs for school mornings when Grayson did Summer Camp at the church and I had to be at work. I learned that in order for us to be on time for 8:30, I had to get up and be ready first. I knew this day was coming, but I've put it off as long as possible. Did you know that you can stay in your pj's long past noon some days if you schedule it just right?! I'll miss those days, but they are replaced with excitement and new adventures.

I had set his clothes out the night before, all ironed and ready to go. The snack and plastic yellow cup for water was in his new lunchbox. The backpack was loaded down with his new supplies. His "homework" man was dry and ready to be taken in. As he watched one cartoon this morning, I made him chocolate chip pancakes in Mickey ear shapes of course. We were all ready, took pictures out front, and were at school on time!!

This was his first assignment given to him at Open House. The "man" needed to look like him. He did a great job!! I am proud of us both! I resisted the urge to help, except for the glue, and I'm proud of teh job he did all by himself. He was pretty excited how it turned out too!!

He walked right into his room only to find he had a new seat assignment. He wasn't rattled at all. We hing up the backpack and lunchbox on the "Grayson" hook and then he found his name at his new table and sat down. Daddy took a quick picture and we left after last kisses, and a few parting words "have fun, make a new friend, be a good listener, see you at lunch!" We were outta there as the same parents lingered who were there when we arrived to drop off. We did as we were told at Open House...please drop them off, give a kiss, and just leave so the transition is as smooth as possible, I'll call if we're experiencing a meltdown!

The hardest part of just being down the hallway is the detours I take to avoid walking in front of his room all day long and the resisting the urge to just go 15 steps and peek in on him!! It was the hardest part, but knowing that I want him to get adjusted before I come visiting, I'll resist the urge to see how he's doing. I'll wait until at least the first of October!! Plus, I know how things are as a teacher, and having parents pop in always made me nervous and usually set the kids reeling and not always in a good way!!

I loved hearing his first comment, "I had a fun day today!" That was music to my ears. Although I had to keep plugging away with questions to get more information from him about the day, I know it was an absolute success!! WAHOO!! He was even ready to go back the next day.

One of my favorite things is being on the other side of school stuff. I totally know the teacher perspective, but now I get to experience the other side, and that of a parent. I admit it might be a little harder than I thought to just go with the flow, not ask too many "what's up with this or that?", adn just accept things for face value. One of my favorite things though is going to be on the receiving end of the "homework folder". I loved looking through his backpack today adn pulling out that folder that he so carefully chose and peering inside to see what was waiting for me!! He had his first bring home sheet that I will definitely be putting in the scrapbook!!

Can you spell S-U-C-C-E-S-S !!!!!!